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Traveling with Pets


People traveling with their pets often claim to have more rewarding experiences than those traveling with friends or family members. (Maybe because the dog doesn’t complain?) We once had a family traveling with a parrot stay at the resort. We never saw them without that bird sitting on someone’s shoulder. It was part of their family.
Our friend Chris' dog, Beacon, probably has her own frequent flyer account she travels so much. Here's a real insider tip: cute dogs often score their owners seat upgrades on airlines. Of course it's dependant on the counter agent's feelings about pooches, but sometimes just a peek of a sweet face is enough to make the day more pleasant for a weary airline employee and you could reap the rewards. Even if you don't get the upgrade, your time at the counter may be more pleasant.
Don't think that dogs have exclusivity when it comes to traveling with their owners. We have friends who take their cat camping with them. And we once saw a young woman at a highway restaurant traveling with a horse trailer in tow. Not an unusual sight in Texas, but we noticed that as she opened the door of her pickup truck a cat jumped out. At first we were alarmed, thinking that now she was going to be scrambling to catch her runaway cat, but while the woman tended to her horse in back, the cat calmly walked to a nearby patch of grass, did his business, returned to the truck, and waited patiently for her return. He jumped right in when she opened the door again and off they went. (Disclaimer: Don't try this one with your own cat without a harness and leash at first.)
Got horses? Plan a trip with them. There are campgrounds across the country with equine facilities and trails to ride. There are also accommodations like ours where you can stay in a cabin and your four hoofed friends get a barn, pasture, or pen nearby. Alyssa used to be quite expert at finding the most incredible places she wanted us to go as a family with the horses.

Here's a cool car seat saver for pets who shed.
Here are some tips from friends and family members who travel frequently with their animals:
1. Get the animal used to it's carrier well in advance of a long trip. Kennel trained pets travel the best.
2. Same thing applies to new feed/water bowls. Don't expect them to drink from that new-fangled drinking thing in a busy parking lot if they never tried it at home.
3. Shop for pet travel gadgets. Pet super stores have an enormous selection of things to make you both more comfortable.
4. Pay attention to you pet's bathroom needs. Our friend Chris even works Beacon's pooping schedule into his travel plans. Seriously. We don't make this stuff up.
5. If possible, try to take several short trips before taking a long one. 
6. Stop as often as your mode of transportation allows.
7. When all else fails and you must travel with a nervous animal, seek veterinary advice.

The real key to traveling with pets is to do your research regarding accommodations and transportation. You should do everything necessary to ensure your pet’s safety and comfort, but the number one rule: never, ever assume that your pet is welcome somewhere just because you are. This means parks, hotels, campgrounds, and Aunt Jane’s house. Not everyone loves animals and some people have severe allergies. Even people with pets of their own may not appreciate visiting animals, so ask first, then enjoy exploring with your beloved pet

Silly Sunday

Happy Travelers know that there are times when you just have to let your hair down. What better way than with a camera in hand. Thus we begin the thread titled Silly Sunday. We hope you will join us each week.

Fixin to what?



Now this is a happy traveler!



It's always fun to play with perspective when you take travel photos.


Dang it! It took my dollar again!


This is Roxie Dog. She is one happy traveler, practically living on the road, traveling from one horse show to another. Read our Traveling with Pets post for tips to keep your pet happy.




This is our miniature horse Crystal. She blogs at www.theminimares.com.

Don't Use the Threat of a Bad Review to Get What You Want

Things go wrong. There are times when you actually deserve a refund or an upgrade or maybe just an apology. As someone who has been on the other side of the check out counter, let me tell you how NOT to get what you deserve.

  1. Make sure you are right. You'd be amazed by how many times people get cranky about things that they are wrong about. We have had people swear to us that there was no hot water in their shower, when they had hot water at the sink just two feet away. Plumbing is not that complex people.
  2. Don't threaten a bad online review. That tells me immediately that you are a person that cannot be satisfied and I most likely will stop wasting my time trying. I would rather let you post the review and use that as a marketing opportunity to address your concerns to potential customers. I have been known to spend hours writing public responses to negative posts, generating far more positive feedback from potential customers than I could have generated on my own. Remember the old saying, "There's no such thing as bad publicity." That does not mean that anyone in the industry wants bad reviews, just that good business people know how to spin one to their advantage. 
  3. Don't raise your voice. Same theory as above. By the time you raise your voice I usually have tried my best offers and you are beyond my help. My goal at that point will be to get you out of my lobby, not satisfy your needs.
  4. Don't attack anyone personally, staff or owner. Nobody responds well to that tactic. And in today's litigious atmosphere, you might actually land in court if you personally attack the wrong person.
  5. Don't blame the business for things beyond their control. The fact that you got lost and didn't call me for assistance is not a reason for a refund. Take responsibility for your actions and I will do the same.


The Good Unexpected Stuff Outweighs the Bad


Follow up to Expect the Unexpected

The first time our daughter, Alyssa, went scuba diving with us in the open ocean was quite memorable. At fifteen she had done fresh water dives, plus we had snorkeled together several times, but she was a little intimidated by the vastness of life under the sea. We chose a spot in the Abaco Islands (Google Affiliate Ad) in the Bahamas where the water was clear and shallow. Our dive was on a reef that brushed the water’s surface, extending down to only about thirty feet at the deepest point. There was a nice sandy bottom without sudden drop offs. It was the perfect place for her to feel comfortable but have the chance to see the beauty of a thriving reef ecosystem. 
             We rented a small boat for the week so that we could dive at our leisure. Gary’s mom was along for the trip and was happy to go out on the boat with us. She took a book to read while she waited topside. We arrived at a spot we had previously scoped out and tied the boat to a buoy situated about thirty yards from the reef. Before we began gearing up Alyssa pointed at a large dark shadow in the water moving toward the boat. It was roughly five feet long and cruising slowly toward us.
               Gary and I grabbed masks and scrambled to lean over the side for a peak. It was a barracuda. I don’t know if you’ve ever faced one of these toothy guys before, but they look scary. There are tales of divers being bitten, but I suspect that those cases involve some sort of antagonism on the part of the diver. We’ve seen hundreds, and as intimidating as they look, we’ve only witnessed curiosity from them, never aggression. Obviously this guy associated boats with food and had come to investigate.
                  The whole time she was gearing up, Alyssa watched that fish watching us. I began to doubt she would actually go through with the dive. To make matters worse, the fish stationed himself at the rear of the boat next to the ladder we would use to enter the water. Gary went in first, popping back up to report that the ‘cuda was big, but harmless. As soon as we were all three in the water we dropped below the surface and set out in the direction of the reef.
The reef was essentially a small island. Since the diving was shallow, our plan was to spend about an hour exploring one end of the reef, followed by a leisurely lunch on the boat with Grandma, then back down for the opposite end. The first dive was incredible. Visibility was about seventy five feet, the reef was teeming with life, and we had a full hour to spend enjoying it. Alyssa was completely comfortable, thanks in part, to the fact that our friendly barracuda chose to keep Grandma company at the boat, rather than follow us.
            Back on the boat Alyssa couldn’t talk fast enough between bites of sandwich to share all that we had seen with Grandma. It was definitely one of those travel moments you keep with you for a very long time. My desk is home to the picture Grandma took of the three of us in wetsuits on the bow of the boat as we awaited the second dive. Mr. ‘Cuda had been waiting patiently at the ladder and sent us off on our second adventure with a grin.
            The boat was at a slight angle to the position of the reef, so we had a bit longer swim this time, but still only about sixty yards. We noticed that the sea was a little choppier and that the visibility had dropped to about fifty feet. We slowly cruised the reef, peering into holes looking for lobsters and studying the intricate dance of life that takes place in every nook and cranny. Gary was leading the dive about twenty feet ahead of Alyssa, with me bringing up the rear.
             After about forty minutes I moved toward him to signal that my air tank was well past the half way mark and that we should turn around. Before I reached him he turned around and put his hand on top of his head in the divers’ universal gesture for “shark.” I looked in the direction he pointed, expecting to see a nurse shark, which is a common reef sighting. Instead, I spotted a six foot Caribbean reef shark cruising toward us from behind an outcropping. I turned to point it out to Alyssa who had seen it and was already in mid panic. I gestured for her to slow down her breathing and stay still. She shook me off.
                    I knew the shark meant no harm; he was just checking us out, but I could not convey that to her. I gestured for us to slowly swim away from him in the direction of the boat, while maintaining our depth. Gary was snapping pictures. Just as Alyssa and I started our swim, a second shark appeared in front of us. This one was at least eight feet long and had the girth of an NFL linebacker. Being in the restaurant business, the first thought that popped into my head was that this guy might be here for the buffet, and I hoped we weren’t on it.
                    He cruised past us, seeming to hook up with his buddy. Alyssa started to swim at a speed that simply was not possible for me to match. She quickly faded into the blue out of sight. I watched the sharks to see if they gave any indication of following her, but they paid no attention. Gary kept snapping pictures. It was one of those big decision moments. I knew Gary would not leave until the sharks did or he ran out of air. I hoped Alyssa could navigate her way back to the boat in the lower visibility, but I wasn’t sure. I looked at my air gauge, which was fast approaching the red zone, then motioned to Gary that I was following Alyssa. He nodded and took another picture.
                                 As I swam, I kept an eye on my air gauge with a quick glance into the blue haze behind me now and then, half expecting the sharks to appear there. I concentrated on maintaining my depth. I’ve watched enough of Discovery Channel Shark Week to know that the last thing I wanted to do was splash around at the surface. It seemed like a long swim, but in reality it was only a moment before I spotted the bottom of the boat up ahead. And there was Mr. ‘Cuda next to the ladder, wickedly smiling like a snake in a toilet.
                   Don’t just expect the unexpected, embrace it because it breathes life deep down into your soul. It forces you to make tough decisions and to see things with a new clarity. Gary eventually climbed back into the boat with a grin bigger than that barracuda’s. He had taken pictures until his film was spent, then followed the sharks from a distance as they slowly meandered around the reef until his air supply would allow no more.
                  It was a day full of irreplaceable memories worth every airport delay, every grumpy ticket agent, every drop of rain that fell during our first three days on the island. Was our condo perfect? Nope. Did everything on the island cost more than we thought it would? Yup. Were we happy travelers anyway? I think you know the answer.

      

Go Left


For those who would joyously march in rank and file, they have already earned my contempt, for they were given a large brain by accident when a spinal chord would have sufficed.

~Albert Einstein

You Are Not a UPS Driver            Did you know that UPS employs routing software specifically designed to eliminate or reduce the left-hand turns made by its delivery vehicles? It seems that going left is harder and more time consuming. Did you also know that most grocery stores are designed to produce a flow of traffic that starts to your right as you enter the store? Stop and think for a minute about the last time you entered an amusement park, zoo, or museum. Generally the flow of traffic is to the right.
            So go left. Left is where the short lines are. Left gets you to the polar bear exhibit while it’s still cool enough to see them playing in the water. Left is uncharted territory. It’s backwards, but good backwards. Left is hard, unless of course, you’re a race horse or race car driver trained to go around in a left-hand circle so that spectators can feel comfortable watching you move to their right. It’s ironic that race horse champion Big Brown was named for UPS. He won the Kentucky Derby after all, by turning left.
            So go left. Stretch your boundaries. Move at your own pace not that of the pack or what is dictated by some traffic flow designer somewhere. Walk through doorways and make a deliberate decision to go to the left. See what things look like from a new perspective.
            Going left is not just about literally turning left. It’s about traveling outside the norm. It means renting a car and wandering the city on your own rather than taking the tour. It means walking when everyone else is getting a cab. It means taking a chance on an unknown eatery rather than a chain restaurant. It means staying at a Mom & Pop resort rather than a highway hotel. It’s about exploring your surroundings in such a way that you discover who you really are and what you want from your life’s journey.

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Enjoy the Ride


For my part, I travel not to go anywhere, but to go. I travel for travel’s sake. The great affair is to move. – Robert Louis Stevenson

The happiest travelers honestly enjoy the act of getting from Point A to Point B. Really. They understand that travel is not just about reaching their destination; it's about the journey.

We could all learn a thing or two about travel from horses. For years we have had horses for our resort for guests to enjoy. One of our most popular horses was named Hoover the Mover. He got that name because he was slow. He was curious about his surroundings and thoroughly engaged in every step of every trail ride we took him on. From the minute you walked up to him with saddle and bridle he perked up. You could almost hear him ask, “Where are we going this time? Can we play in the water today?”

Other horses we used for rides were less than enthusiastic. There’s a term for horses that either won’t leave home willingly or that speed up on the second half of the trail in order to return home (their ultimate destination). Horses that don’t enjoy the ride are called “barn sour.” It’s a hard habit to break, but it can be avoided with a little creativity in the first place. To avoid boredom we always varied our route just enough to keep the horses wondering what was coming next and we often made sure that there was something special in store for them before they finished traveling for the day. When there were multiple rides to do, we treated all the horses to brushing and rub downs before the next set of riders.

Hoover liked Coca Cola, so that’s what he got between rides. He could spot a red aluminum can from a hundred yards. Give him a few minutes slurping Coke poured into the cupped hands of a giggling child and he was ready for anything. 

Sometimes being Travel Happy is just that simple. Change your route; take a closer look at your surroundings; stop for a Coke.

You can read more about Hoover on our resort blog.